Why I Cried During A Job Interview – And The Lessons I Learned
I know, I know, don’t even mention it. So far, this is probably one of the most embarrassing (job interview) moments I have experienced in my career. I mean, who ends up crying at a job interview? Well, I did…and here’s what happened.
I Got This
It all started when I just graduated from University a couple of years ago. If you have read “When My Dream Job Turned Out to Be Just A Dream” you will know that I was extremely excited to jump-start my career in Marketing. I had been on the job hunt for just a few weeks and I knew exactly which company I wanted to work for.
And remember, I had just graduated so I felt like I was ready for the world. I felt unstoppable, so yes I took a bold step. I applied for a job role at this prestigious company I wanted to work for and after about three days I received an interview invitation. This was it. I was going to make it happen!
Having about four days to prepare I gathered all the information I could possibly find about the company. I knew which year the company started, the names of all the directors, their mission, and vision and worked my “Why did you apply for this job” pitch around this. Nobody could tell me anything. I got this… I thought!
Cry Baby Cry
So now it was the day of the interview and of course, I had my career girl suit on. The interview started well. The interviewers asked me some general questions and I believe I was able to answer them sufficiently. However, when they started asking me ‘scenario based’ questions I began to mess up. “What would you do if” and “How would you handle this” type of questions which I clearly wasn’t prepared to answer.
I mean, I had just graduated from Uni and barely had any work experience... How am I supposed to know what I would do if situation X or Y happened - I thought. Obviously, the interviewers saw I was struggling but they just kept firing similar questions at me... and I lost it. I panicked and I started crying.
Looking back, I believe everything happens just to teach us a lesson. These are the lessons you can learn from my experience:
You can’t have something you’re not ready for
I believe that in life, things are granted to you at the right time; when you are ready to handle it. Often times, when we receive things that we are not yet matured enough for, we tend to abuse it or cease to recognise the value of it. In this case, I believe the interviewers were right. I hadn’t developed a thick skin, especially to handle such a role. I was nowhere near ready.
You need to prepare and allow yourself to grow
Always prepare like your life depends on it. For some reason, I thought that me having graduated was going to do the magic and that I was going to land every job I wanted. Dream careers do not happen overnight, you have to be realistic. You have to put in the work.
You will fail many times, but don’t give up
Failure is just another stepping stone to success
Even when you are prepared enough, mature enough or wise enough, you will experience failure. However, failure does not define you. It’s just another stepping stone to success. You might have missed out on some opportunities, but you will actually be glad you did. One day you will look back and realise that had you not missed it, you would have never been the person you are today.
Side note: Had I not been rejected for this job, I would have never landed a job abroad a couple of months after.